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16 WAYS TO PLEASE YOUR WIFE.

16 WAYS TO PLEASE YOUR WIFE.
-Make her feel secure, don't threaten her with divorce.
-Don't compare her to other women, especially physically. And don't praise other women in front of her. Tell her she is beautiful.
- Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere. Don't shout at her in front of others.

- Be generous with her. Give her gifts and surprise her at the most random time.
- Don't be rigid or harsh-hearted. If there is nothing wrong with something, allow her to do it.

- Be a good listener. Women love when you listen to their rants.
- Expect, accept, and overlook her shortcomings. She isn't perfect. If you don't like something in her, you will like other things. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself.

- Speak of the topic of her interest. Don't just blabber on about what you like.
- Kiss your wife, foreplay, don't jump on her like a bull.

- Leave the past for Allah, don't dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
- Help at home, with housework. 

- Don't act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
- When you eat, put a morsel from your plate in her mouth.

- Write love notes or poems and place them in the book she's been reading.
- Ask her if she would like to invite her female friends over for ladies only get together and arrange for the dinner.

- Be the shoulder she can lean on to cry when she feels depressed.
- Remember that women experience a lot of hormone imbalance because of PMS, menses and pregnancy..and this can have an effect on their mood. They can become irritable and angry for little things. At this time, you have to understand her and don't irritate her more. Pamper her, kiss her, and be gentle with her. Remember it's their nature and they have been created in this way.

~*syafiyah*~
from : fp Sisters

Bad Habits

*Story*
BAD HABITS

"A wealthy man requested an old scholar to wean his son away from his bad habits. The scholar took the youth for a stroll through a garden. Stopping suddenly he asked the boy to pull out a tiny plant growing there.

The youth held the plant between his thumb and forefinger and pulled it out. The old man then asked him to pull out a slightly bigger plant. The youth pulled hard and the plant came out, roots and all. “Now pull out that one,” said the old man pointing to a bush. The boy had to use all his strength to pull it out.

“Now take this one out,” said the old man, indicating a tree. The youth grasped the trunk and tried to pull it out. But it would not budge. “It’s impossible,” said the boy, panting with the effort.

“So it is with bad habits,” said the sage. “When they are new, it is easy to pull them out, but when they take hold they become very difficult to be uprooted.”

The session with the old man changed the boy’s life.

Moral: Don’t wait for bad habits to grow in you, drop them while you have control over them else they will get control you."

~*syafiyah*~

from : fp Sisters

The Shoes ♥

****A beautiful story****
*** THE SHOES***

It was a long, hard winter.
Sadi was very cold because his shoes were worn and they let the water in. For the first time, he was sorry that his family was very poor. He thought how nice it would be if they had enough money to buy a thick coat and some good shoes.
 
One day Sadi was returning from school with his bag in hand. He stopped before the central mosque just as the athan for afternoon prayer was being called. Sadi liked to pray in the mosque, so he went into the courtyard and walked up to the fountain to perform his ablution. He left his school bag and rolled up his sleeves. He knew almost everyone who was performing ablution there. He sat at a fountain and took off his shoes. His socks were dirty and wet. Angrily he threw one of his torn shoes on the ground.

Then he saw a man performing ablution next to him. This man washed one leg and then stood up. Sadi noticed that the man had only one leg.
 
Now he was embarrassed. He had been worried about his shoes, but that man had only one leg. Maybe he had a lot of money to buy shoes; but money wasn’t everything. After completing his prayer, Sadi began to pray to Allah, raising his hands high. He thanked Allah for his strong legs.

***Hadith***
“Always be content with less. Then
you will be the best at thanking
Allah.”
[Ibn Majah]

~*syafiyah*~ 

from :
fp - Sisters