Good Friend and Bad Friend

~*Good Friend and Bad Friend*~
19 februari 2011 pukul 11.09
@bedroom

bismillahirahmanirahim
assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh
alhamdulillah.. alhamdulillahi robbil alamin asholatuwasalamu
ashrofil ambiyai’ walmurshalin ama ba’du ♥


~~~the calling is end!the conversation lasted 50 minutes, just ended!
hmm .. all of it was feel so short!
but pretty treat ..!
treat-a name in the my heart, named : miss! 

 She always bring her nice atmosphere, 

i feel so comfort with her,

for a common the tittle for her is 'friend'

but thats tittle is not enough!

because, in fact she is not j.u.s.t a friend!

she is a nice friend!,

 

do you know, and do agree with me if i say..

-truly, the nice friends are..,

who have no words of  'NO' to share they knowledge or experience!

even it'll make their friend become 'more' than you!

they also have not motive to drop you from your back!

meanwhile, bad friends have two hobby...

first, miserly second envious!

don't hope they will give something for free!

although they give you free, they also 'give' stiletto!

its hard for them to see you success!

as hard as they eat the seed of kedongdong, hahaha~

naah, when nice friends smiling,

as thoung the sing a sweet song! full happiness!
also make a  honest love! ♪♪
coz, its clearly.. they have beautiful heart!

but, there is another smile,

who will make you feel bad!

coz it's come from the bad friend!

one side, smile maybe look so sweet!

but another side.. that's smile is also bitter!

why? because that's smile come from specious person!

good friends easy to show polite and courteous,
the speak right, full of appreciate and respect!
they wouldnt say a hurtful word, or a slander!,
but they will not make us do wrong, so.. sometimes they will 'flicked' you

with the right things, but followed with wisdom ♥

but, the bad friends, will not respect the real of you,

never sincerely from the heart! 

especially when a lot of people admiring you,

they will so angry, in fact!

and, when we do mistkes,

they prefer to not care, or maybe happy to see you on trouble!

good friend appreciate our work even it's simple things,
'useless' or 'nothing' is the appreciate from bad friends!

the happiness of you is the satisfaction of good friend!

but, your happiness is only the hardest fact for bad friend!

when you try to make your dream come true,

your bad friends love to come to you,

asking  you to join event to event!

make fun, laugh, and party!

useless!

but, your good friend, also will come to you,

not to ask you to go to party, but..

helping you to make priority, to reach the target! 

'handshaker' and treasonable are the favorite things for bad friend,
but, good friend never touch that! or even make you hurt with barb fish!
they often felt so sad to see you look sad!

they'll pray for the best for you!.
naah, a bad friend also will pray.. but, they will pray for one name: it's them self!

good friend will try to keeping their promise,
they know the line between their right and yours right,
coz they have faith, although their friend doesnt see, but certainly Allah saw them!

a bad friends hard to keep their promise,

coz they dont have faith!

a good friend will invite you to glorius place,

but bad friend will invite you to immoral place!

haram and mungkar is the first choice of bad friend!

but good friend absoloutly choose halal and ma'ruf for you and them!

they also love to join all great things!

they need something to make move and change to be better,
but bad friend is so anti for this things!
 

good friend not offer friendship with the wealth, property,

or many fun things in this word. because they know..

life is only a game and have end!

they wont choose to fall to illusion!

but they offer the friendship that begin with;
Allah's pleasure!, with the capital asset : akhlakul kharima!
(ex: sidiq, amanah, tabliq, fatanah~)
so, this friendship is not only offer 'duniawi'  but also 'jannah' insyaAllah.
the friendship that wouldnt offer by bad friend!

“permisalan teman yg baik dan teman duduk yg jelek,
seperti penjual m.i.n.y.a.k w.a.n.g.i dan p.a.n.d.a.i b.e.s.i.
(duduk dengan) penjual minyak wangi
bisa jadi ia akan m.e.m.b.e.r.i.m.u minyak wanginya,
bisa jadi engkau membeli darinya,
dan bisa jadi engkau akan dapati darinya aroma yang wangi.
sementara (duduk dengan) pandai besi,
bisa jadi ia akan m.e.m.b.a.k.a.r pakaianmu,
dan bisa jadi engkau dapati darinya bau yang tak sedap.”
(h.r. al-bukhari dan muslim)

wallahu a'lamu bishshawab. 
wassalamualaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh, 
barakalllahu fiikum, 
~*syafiyah*~