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10 ways to love your husband

 
 10 ways to love your husband :
Absolutely no talking about your spousal problems to anyone you meet, not even under the pretense of seeking help!
Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother.
Learn all the rights and obligations of each other in Islam. Focus on fulfilling your obligations, not demanding your rights.
Race to the door when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him
Smile and hug him
Keep your house clean, at least to the level he wants it
Compliment him on the things you know he's not so confident about (looks, intelligence, etc) This will build his self-esteem
If he's in a bad mood, give him some space. He'll get over it, In sha Allah.
Make jokes. If you're not naturally funny, go on the internet and read some jokes, and then tell them to him
Tell him you're the best wife ever and compliment yourself on certain things you know you're good at
Tell him he's the best husband ever
from : fb : sisters
 ~*syafiyah*~

apa aliranmu?

•*`'•.¸apa aliranmu?¸.•''*•
.:bumi cinta اللَّهِ
januari 30th, 2013:.

bismillahirahmanirahim
assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh
alhamdulillah.. alhamdulillahi robbil alamin asholatuwasalamu ashrofil ambiyai’ walmurshalin ama ba’du ♥

duhai jiwa raga yang berpijak di bumi.
semua boleh jadi memiliki kepala,
tapi tidak semua berambut hitam.
tangkaplah hikmah dari pelangi, maka...
adalah niscaya jika kita temukan kata : beda.
dalam pola-laku-cara-bentuk-ukur-atur-anything.
hingga selayaknya muncul kata : ‘wajar-toleran-damai-hargai-hormati’
(terkhusus bila satu ikatan syahadat-ukhuwah islamiyah^_~ )
bukan justru kata ‘anti-tolak-diskriminasi-jatuhmenjatuhkan-memojokkan’
sayang tapi sayang banyak yang menyematkan itu pada kata ‘beda’
pada hal yang sesungguhnya jelas ada pada syariat,
terkait tauhid atau aqidah, sebab ia bukanlah pink dan merah.
melainkan sebagaimana perbedaan hitam dan putih.

seringkali ada pertanyaan,
“apa aliranmu?”
atau dugaan,
“dia pasti aliran ini”
yang kemudian bersahut ‘ooh’
atau naik ketingkat ‘cibir-hina-rendah-atau heran’
atau syukur-syukur naik ke tingkat ‘masyaallah-wow-keren’ hihi~

ingatlah, bahwa allah akan menimbang a.m.a.l.a.n kita,
selayaknya perbedaan itu senantiasa mengajarkan kita untuk :
[1] senantiasa menuntut ilmu, rajin pergi mengaji.
bukan sekedar mengaku tahu, tapi enggan tholabul ilmy. duh!
adakah aliran yg mengajarkan untuk tidak menuntut ilmu?
jelas itu bukan aliran islam!

simak dialog singkat ini :
ikhwan a : “oi, lu mau ngaji lagi? ngaji mulu lu”
ikhwan b : “iya, alhamdulillah, ikut yuk”
ikhwan a : “ogah. ntar dandanan gue kayak lu. gak macho”
ikhwan b : “fisik gak perlu macho, yang penting hati tetep cool dan kepala tetep berquality’
ikhwan a : ‘gaya lu. lu ikut aliran apa?’
ikhwan b : “heh? Aliran apa-an? Aye mah aliran islam”
ikhwan a : “awas lu ntar kebawa sesat lu, ntar lu berjenggot dan celananya ngatung, ntar tiap sholat lu disuruh ke mesjid mulu”
ikhwan b : “(-.-) itu kan sunah dan wajib”
ikhwan a : “heeeeh? Bo’ong lu, itu kan aliran yang suka bikin bom lu!”
ikhwan b : “hadueeh.. lu sih ikut aliran sufi”
ikhwan a : “apa’an tuh?”
ikhwan b : “aliran su-ka fi-lm. yg ditonton film barat yg kontra sama islam!
biar lebih cerahan yuk ngaji!’

dan kewajiban muslim adalah menuntut pada ia yang paham,
atau ia yang profesional sebab ilmu / pengalamannya.
sepatutnya bukan pada ia yang ‘kemarin sore’
pun bukan pada ia yg tinggi hati.


[2] berbaiksangka adalah kewajiban muslim atas muslim lainnya.
masih hobby menuduh dan menyebar fitnah tanpa bukti?
aliran mana itu? jelas itu bukan islam!

[3] koreksi diri.
dialog singkat ini mungkin menginspirasi,
wanita a : kamu jilbab-nya lebar banget, aliran apa?
wanita b : aliran apa? nggak ada tuh..
wanita a : iya, aliran islam apa? jilbabnya lebar banget
wanita b : hehe.. kamu sendiri aliran apa?
wanita a : eh?
wanita b : iya kamu aliran islam apa kok nggak pakai jilbab?
wanita a : .....

kita seringkali jatuh pada pribahasa,
‘semut di sebrang pulau tampak,
gajah dipelupuk mata tak tampak’

sungguh, seringkali semua ini bukan ttg mereka,
melainkan ttg kita.. kita yang mengaku islam, tapi...
shalat sering terlongkap, atau telat?
apalagi shalat sunah, beraaaat!
mengaji? jangankan satu juz sehari, satu lembarpun khilaf!
sedekah? tiap jumat? nggak juga...
bahkan senyum dihadapan saudara, masih mikir-mikir,
melihat risih orang berjilbab lebar,
tapi.. nggak risih mempertontonkan diri atau menyebar foto diri?
merasa bangga dengan jilbab lebar,
tapi masih suka bercengkrama dgn teman yg tak semahrom?
innalillahi~ mari muhasabah diri, menjadi diri yg mulia

[4] berlapang dada-lah jika kamu dapati,
saudarimu benar atas nasehatnya.
lembutkan hatimu,
sebagaimana umar yang luluh mendengar nasihat Abu bakar,
kala ia marah atas kematian rasulullah
maka, sepatutnya kita juga lembut hatinya
kala saudari kita menasehati kita tuk berjilbab,
tuk menjaga pandangan dan pergaulan,
untuk memutuskan pacar,
berucap jujur dan tulus pada orangtua,
tidak mencontek, menonton-mendengar hal yang sia
lupa baca doa atau sekedar memakai tangan kanan tuk makan

[5] tidak berdebat seperti debat kusir.
ia akan sangat berbahaya jika terus diikuti.
sepatutnya kita adalah bagian yang ‘do more, talk less’

[6] hindari kegaduhan fitnah
selayaknya tiada perlu mengungkit hal yg dapat menjadi bom,
gunakanlah ilmu prioritas, agar dapat memilih mana yg utama J

semoga kita dapat mengambil hikmah dari fitrah ini J
wallahu a'lamu bishshawab.
wassalamualaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh,
barakalllahu fiikum,
~*aisyah asyafiyah*~


Prophet Idris Alaihisalam [2]

Back with me, yeah.. second Prophet was Idris alahisalam. Well, honestly i dont really remember the story about him but.. i search on many blog (i'll give you the link on the bottom) and i resume to my blog.

Prophet Idris was the seventh generation, a son from Yarid bin Mihla'iel bin Qinan bin Anusy bin Syith bin Adam A.S. On his era, the people had bad habits / akhlak and tauhid. So he had mission to make them back to Allah. Allah gave him miraculous on every sector. He was a talented horseman, can write (it said, on that time nobody can), and can do tailorship. He also get tittle 'Asadul Usud' which mean Lion, because he never gave up on his duty. He never felt fear to kafir's people. But he was a 'down to earth' man and easy to give forgiveness. 

The popular story about him is about his journey to heaven and the hell.
One day, Idris asked to Angels : Izrael, to bring him to the heaven and the hell, and the angle asked to Allah, Allah accepted that. So Idris went there. First he choose to go to the hell, there he almost fainted. The guardian was so scary, he drag people to the fire and tortured them. Idris felt so scared, and he asked to go to heaven. There, the handsome and charming guardian gave him salam, softly he called them to come in. When Idris looked the beautiful heaven, he become speechless. He look the river and the tree which made by gold. There was the castles. Fruits everywhere, and the air felt smell-good. He also met the women angles, beautiful one! After looked around for a long time, it was time to him to get back to the earth, but he refused to go. He want to stay in heaven forever. So Allah whom so rahmat and rahman, accepted what he want. Allah gave him lofty place in heaven. Idris was the only propeth who living in the heaven without death.

When Prpphet Muhammad salallahualaihiwasalam had journey for isra' mi'raj to the sky, he met Prophet Idris alaihisalam.

Lets look : Al-Anbiya : 85 and 86, plus Maryam : 56 and 57

From him we can learn many advice, such as :
1. Patient will push us to be the winner and lucky :)
2. The most happiness person in the world must be a man whom always only hope for Allah bless for all his kindness or amal


~*syafiyah*~
[30/01/2013]

Propeth Adam Alaihisalam [1]

One of my targets this holiday is re-read again about the "25 Prophets" in Islam, because i forget many story about them. So, the first Prophet that Allah made, who is really popular on the world because he was the first man whom created and whom lived in this world :) His name is Adam, which mean 'man' in Arabic. 

"He began the creation of man from dust. Then He made his progeny of an extract of water held in light esteem. Then he made him complete and breathed into him of His spirit and made for you ears and eyes and heart ...." (Qur'an 32:7-9)

Well, before the creation, Allah directed all the angels to assemble (angels - created from light and Jinns - created from fire). Thousands of them gathered in group. Allah declared that Allah intended to create the man from the dust. But, the angels and Iblis (Satan) disapprove and said that human would make disorder or make damage in the earth. But Allah answered that on Al-Baqarah : 30 "....Allah answered : I know what you know not...".

So, Allah made Adam

And this ayat came:

"And He taught Adam the names of all things; then presenting them to the angels, He said: Tell Me the names of these if you are right." (Quran 2:31)
The angels did not know their names and said:
"Glory be to You. We have no knowledge except what You have taught us. Surely, You are the Knowing, the Wise." (Quran 2:32)

Adam can answered that. So, the angles respect him. Adam was created so miraculously. But, Satan refused to give respected to Adam, they rejected him and became defiant. He arrogantly refused to accept him. So, Allah expelled Satan from Jannah and deprived him of all Divine favors. Satan requested to allow him to exist until the Day of Judgment, and let them bring the children of adam (human) to his way (hell). Allah agreed.

So, Adam lived in Jannah. But, he felt lonely, and to erase that feeling, a female named Hawawa was created, and became his wife. The lived happily there until... the satan successed in his mission to teased them to eat prohibited tree. [Check Quran 7 : 22 & 20 : 177] Adam and Hawa were overloaded with grief, they asked for forgiveness to Allah. And Allah accepted their repentance (tobat) and dispelled them from the Jannah. They became ordinary people and separated. In the earth, they needed more than thousand year to find each other.

Adam and Hawa had four children, twins daughter (Labuda and Ikrima) and twins sons (Habil and Qabil). Qabil was an envious man, moreover when Allah accepted the lamb from Habil and ignored his. And also, Habil would marriage with Ikrima, the most beautiful sister. Satan whispered to him to kill Habil. And Qabil hit Habil's head by stone. He felt so sad and apologetically about what he did. He looked two crows, fighting and one crow death. The other crow dug the ground and bury the died bird. Qabil followed that ways.

So, from this story we can learn :
1. Satan will tease us from we birth till we died, so... lets walk on the lighting road
2. Allah will accepted our tobat, and we must keep better, and sabar plus syukur
3. Envy is destructively, just be proud to your self, keep lillahita'ala and ikhlas :)
4. Keep moving forward (Adam searched for Hawa, Hawa searched for Adam, even it took a loong loong loong journey, lets keep moving, pray and sabar in 'every single goals' :p)
5. Allah knows everything :)

~*syafiyah*~
[30/01/2013]

Manga for Boys

If the last post I shared about 'Unforgettable Manga for Girls' Now, i want to share about 'Manga for Boys' :D Hope you like it!

[1. Air Gear]
 [2.Megabots]

 [3. Lets Go]
 [4. Dragon Ball]

[5.Captain Tsubasa]

 [6.Duel Masters]

 [7. Gundam]

[8. Hunter X Hunter]

 [9. Kekkaishi]

[10. Nube]

[11. Ninku]

 [12. Knights Zodiac]

[13. Naruto]

[15. YuYu Hakusho]

[16. Offside]

[17. Blade ]

~*syafiyah*~

Holiday is Coming..!

Yeah, alhamdulillah wa syukurillah holiday is coming.. What is your resolution for this holiday? :D I'll have holiday till 1 March 2013, begin now (22/01/2013) ^^ So, if I am not wrong I' have more almost 35 days to spend! (^__^) lets make it have quality and great memory...

So, here i go to make my holidays goals ^_^

1. Posting 40 post on my blog using english, anything! (22January till 22 Feb)!
2. Cooking 40 menu :D
3. Memorizing Surah Juz 30 (An-Nas till Al-Infitar)
--yeah i am little bit slow at remembering
4. Doing 61 parts of English learning alone and ask to friends if i dont know
5. SMS tausiyah to my friends everyday!
6. Observation for my business (Mangga 2 and Mayestik)
7. Finishing My Harry Potter -English Edition- book 1 till 7
8. Do for my PKM-GT, Pengabdian and Usaha
9. Find my tittle for my Skrips
10. Read about Story of All Prophets
11. Learning how to make dress
12. Bikin Handycraft (Clay, bros by kain perca, and box)
13. Go to 4 places
(Asemka, Mayestik, Mangga 2, Tanah Abang, Pasar Senen, Citraland, Pocin-Depok, Tangerang and Kampoeng :p )
14. One day hopefully 1 juz :D
15. Quality time with bro-sis-parents :D

hope not to much..
hope istiqomah
hope all done in the end!

checklist!
~*syafiyah*~

Unforgettable Manga for Girls

Hiaaay... Well, today I wanna share about my unforgettable cartoon! Well, for you who lived on last 19 era or 2000-2006, using the magic pocket of doraemon, lets get back and review our fav. cartoon! Which, sadly, hard to watch it now on television, hmm.. poor kid's era!

Now, i want to share my unforgettable manga which are soo girly!
or usually watched by girl! Check this out :D

1. Cardcaptor Sakura
Sakura, Tomoyo, Saoran, Yukito and Big Brother! >,<
really unforegtable! I really love this manga
besides the story the design of her dress is also cuteeee!
With the unique character~ And also the character of every card!
I really want to have although only one! xD

2. Chibi Maruko-Chan
Family drama! Maruko and her family is sooo simple!
But the simple moments make it unforgettable! :D


3. Minky Momo

Once, when i was kid i also want to be like her.
Have a magic to change our-self to be older and prettier :p
Haha but.. yeah this is not syari' ^_^
I love her soft pink hair :D

4. Hamtaro
Hamtarooo.. i misssss you badly!
 Small. Orange. Love sunflower and have so much adventure!
 
5. Pretty Cure
Two bestfriend. Student. Pretty.
And have power to save the world (?)
with cute ponsel :p haha
Black and White dress, very contrast!

6. Fruit Basket
Seriously, i am really forget about the story.
But, one things i know.. i watched this manga!
She have brown hair :D love it!

7. Sailormoon
On Indosiar, never finished this manga.
I also dont know the begining of this story. 
 but, who dont know this manga, on this era? :D

8. Tokyo Mew-Mew
Cat and Pink..?
So girly! haha~

9. Wedding Peach
Three girls pluck up the criminal..?
And using wedding dress? :D
out of imagination haha
I love the way they change the clothes to wedding dress!

10. Ashita No Nadja
Nadja.. cute girl and her adventure.
have a lot of boy's friend
(not the couple) her friends are from many basic.
with unique characteristic.

11. A little Snow Fairy Sugar
I love the one who using glasses (similar with Tomoyo on Cardcaptor Sakura)
I am not sure about the story, but this manga is cute :D

12. Corector Yui
Not my fav. but unforgettable :)

13. Akazuni Cha-Cha
This is sooo comedy! Make me laughed!
Witch like red ridding hood, and an unique boy's friend

14. Ranma 1/2
I still remember the song of this manga :)
Mm.. but i dont like the story :p haha
One people two person~

15. Candy-Candy
Mmm.. not finish yet :p

16. Miracle Girl
I know them when i saw them :p
but the story not too remember haha

17. Ojamajo Doremi
Yeeei.. colorful manga!
Unique and full of happiness :D love it!

18. Baby Ufo
Drama and almost romantic story!
(I also get some inspiration from this manga)


20. Trouble Chocolate

 well.. i guess i know the song of this manga.
but i dont like the character of the girl who is too girly :p


21. Panyo-Panyo Charat
 cute one! similar like fairy sugar! hoho

anything else you know about girl's manga?
~*syafiyah*~
[18.01.13]