when we are single...

if you are single there are a lot of thing we can do! coz where we are single, we only have responsibility for our self (yeah, we dont have couple yet :p ) So, lets our free time becomes useful time! Muster up the negative things in our life by rocks our day with syari' ways! xP

So, here the tips., when we are single...

[1] Memorized the Quran and Hadist

Insyaallah, hopefully this ikhtiar will make us become an angel of heaven :p

 

[2] Learning Cooking or how to cleaned down :p

Hmm.. delicious food made by self is sooo something!

[3] Get a lot of friends / link

So, when you are walimahan, a lot of friends will come insyaallah :p

ukhuwah islamiyah also inculde!

[4] Join the community

 Palestina lover? Peace maker? Indonesia without JIL?

Cancer Care Community? Dakwah care?

Life without murtad? Mualaf care?

etc, :D

[5] Maximization Dakwah

To family, friends and ummat! :D

and then with your couple to your kids!

 

[6] Acceleration to learn about Islam

Hadist, aqidah, fikh, tahsin, tafsir,

tahfidz, akhlak,  etc

so much riteee? xD yei yei we can!

 

[7] Get your dreams as a professional~

student to be a doctor, psycholog, writer? :D

lets make our dream come true!

serious and professional!

[8] Hobby

Whats your hobby?

Lets make masterwork!

~*syafiyah*~

[28/12/12]

The Idea for (short) Holiday!

December 22 till 2 January 2013 (11 days) is holiday :3 (holiday..? >,< pliss this is should be a busy week, because after that I'll have last test for this semester) And I wasted my time since 22 des till 25 by nothing (sleeping-eating-browshing)! I should wake up from this leisured by doing my tasks and reading something good. Yeah.. Yeah.. Yeah.. Hap! Hap! Hap! I still have seven day to move on, start from now!

So, what exactly i or you can full fill our holiday..?

Here many idea which is i hope not only idea, but we can make it real! ^_~ 

[1] Resume many subject! (for me 9 subject + many tasks)

[2] Reading books 
-not need to finish it- (For me maybe : hal-hal yang haram bagi muslimah, the roadless traveling, and psikologi nabi! xD) 

[3] Writing the useful things! 
(Islamic, social, humanity, poem, story, etc)

[4] Be science of food! (chef experimenter :p )

okey, i cant make doughnut :p but i want! drooling so hard!

[5] Reading Quran

[6] Listening Kajian

[7] Increasing English ability! (aiih.. my toefl)

[8] Social Act! (join nice community, or maybe sent social message :p )

[9] Make handicraft
 (I really want to make scraft book and also make something made by flour -really forget the name- lets dancing with our creativity :D )

so... have useful holiday!
first thing first yeah!
~*syafiyah*~

places to go :D

Well.. it's raining here, alone with my toshi (laptop) dont know what must i do :3 #bad planer. Hmm.. this day becomes worse when i visit the album from 'new couple', honeymoon to europe, muslimah-muslim. T,T make me envy. hahaha.. but hope not make me mess.  :3 well if one day i meet someone or have money to go around the world, i will trully love if i can go to :

mekah

 

paris

canada

And in Indonesia, i wanna go to...

Semeru

raja ampat

bandung

bali

belitong

solo

surabaya

garut

and.. another.. #wait for renew :p

~*syafiyah*~

sorry for me

its seems so grey.

coz the waver.

lost in the meeting point

with the ambiguous's color

the reason is clearly;

'i miss you'

'i hate me'

and last..

'sorry'

~*syafiyah*~

across on my mind :)

Hai my blog and readers :) it's feel so long since my last visited, and now i also dont know what exactly i want to share. No idea, just accompany my fingers dancing on keyboard. And.... what should i write here? Feel? Think? Act?

Coz be coz, no idea.. i'll just write something really through in my mind, is it okey? :)

[1] I must say "thank" to sinetron Indonesia, who show hot pants or jeans which is only cover the ass side, and the tank top which show 'mega' breast and armpit! (-,-)" I am questioning my self, what exactly they motif besides money? to show talent? (or show body) they just like to forget about role duty! their fashion, act, behavior have been watch every day with various viewer such as kids, teens, and parents, manager, entrepreneur, leader, housewife, maid, or 'abang-abang tukang' it's mean : everybody! fuih.. dont they feel guilty or ashamed if their act 'copypaste' by the viewer which is really not 'indonesian' and absoloutly not 'religious!' plisss save our future!

[2] Hmm.. i felt little bit guilty because it has been so long i've never write islamic things on facebook and never tag my friends again. Feel like already losing friends. Yeah, on virtual world, the percentage to get the real friends is so low. So, on that world i only hope i can be useful by written :)

[3] Now, i am really alone at my boarding house and its raining :3 I hope nothing bad will happen! :D

[4] My friend's told me, his friend write status about how love he felt to a japan woman, until no more things can change that even the God -,-" He prefer meet japan woman even it must make him murtad. Naudzubillahimindzalik. Is this the frame of teenager in this era? Laa haula walaa quwata ilabillah

[5] I feel sleepy but I want eat noodle again >,< well, that's not good for my health :) (aih, i remember, i made many love story kinda korean drama in my mind :3 bad one!) There are many tasks i must finish!

[6] I guess, i must planing about my targets on 2013, must focus!! And i only need to take 3 amanah (on faculty, university, and remaja masjid -well, i am not teen :3 )+ i hope one more amanah is become...... . Well, get cumlaude and focus for skrispi (aih, what should i make? -,-"really no idea huuff huff huf) Fighting!!

[7] A week, alone and without money. I really should sleep i guess -,-"

bye-bye readers

sorry for messing ur day with this absurd written :)

love,

~*syafiyah(ve)*~

moment to remember :)

jalan-jalan pas matriks :)

ngantin bareng sama geng SMA :p kurang inta hihi

jeng-jeng main SMP, nheta, nisa, dini :D

reuni family78 2012 :)

jalan-jalan ke pulau seribu hadiah unicef-ykai :) 2008

milad nadya :) foto bareng ukhti-ukhti :p

makan-makan dibayarin yulia :D

miladnya icha di panti asuhan, surprise!

SMA kesayangan :) 2008, di depan labkom

miladnya defri, mukena hijau :D

miladnya ery si bp-lovers hihi

ini ibu-ibu n mba2 waktu SMP :) #anak rohis gitu deh :p

foto bareng temen2 YKAI ilma, langit, (duh lupa), aku!

habiskan siang dengan narsis bersama :p

bakti sosial :)

idul adha.. ikhwannya sadis2 :p

superday goes to UI, seruuu.. surveinya juga seru :)

singgahan terakhir :D

ice cream with trini and me :)

:) lovely family kurang non ery, adis, nisa aja nih~

The Butterfly Effect

Yeah, this was on of my wishlist :D and happily i watched that two months ago. This is unique movie with handsome actor, mr ashton kutcher looks so man with his beard.

well, the story is also curiously. the black out. the plot. and the result of his plan.

well, he only can make plan, but not the result.

"every times he tried to help someone, the result become sh*t"

his first time to back was when he become an actor for kayleigh's father the result was he become a populer student, antagonist, and went to prisoner because killed Kayleigh's brother : Tommy.

And so it goes on, with Evan's attempts to create perfect lives for his soulmate Kayleigh, and best friends Tommy and Lenny resulting in various alternate histories and messed up incarnations of the characters. 

The next question in my mind is.. if you have five chance to change adn live'd five different versions of the first 20-odd years of your life, what exactly you'll choose? love, career, friendship, society and humanity? If it's me.. I wont change anything :) Alhamdulillah, i love my life today!

if you love sci-fi,

this is recommended!

~*syafiyah*~

Pribadi Matang

•*`'•.¸dalam matang ia menantang¸.•''*•

.:bumi cinta اللَّهِ desember 22, 2012:.

bismillahirahmanirahim

assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh

alhamdulillah.. alhamdulillahi robbil alamin asholatuwasalamu ashrofil ambiyai’ walmurshalin ama ba’du

dear lovely muslimah,

adakah diantaramu mengetahui,

apa dan bagaimana sesungguhnya

pribadi matang itu..?

bagaimana kalau kita mencuri ilmu,

dari orang-orang berakal,

(semisal tokoh psikologi marc&angel, 2007 ♥)

yg sedikit diedit sebagaimana gayaku!

pribadi matang itu tuh...

[1] ia yg sadar bahwa kematangan itu p.r.o.s.e.s berlanjut,

sbg upaya perbaikan dan peningkatan diri

[2] disertai kemampuan mengelola diri dari perasaan c.e.m.b.u.r.u dan iri hati.

[3] ia-pun mampu men-dengar-kan dan meng-evaluasi,

tak hanya dari pandangnya melainkan juga dari sudut pandang o.r.a.n.g  l.a.i.n.

[4] hobby memelihara ke-sabar-an dan fleksibilitas

dalam kehidupan sehari-hari.

[5] ia juga ringan dalam menerima fakta

bahwa seseorang tidak selamanya dapat menjadi pemenang,

sebab itu ia mau belajar dari berbagai kesalahan dari berbagai hasil

[6] dan asyiknya, ia memandang keberadaan dirinya sebagai hal yang positif

[7] ia mampu membedakan antara keputusan r.a.s.i.o.n.a.l

dan e.m.o.t.i.o.n.a.l impulse~

[8] memahami bahwa tidak akan ada kecakapan tanpa adanya p.e.r.s.i.a.p.a.n.

[9] memiliki kemampuan mengelola ke-sabar-an dan ke-marah-an.

[10] senantiasa menjaga perasaan orang lain,

dan siap membatasi diri dari rasa egois..!

[11] ia juga pandai membedakan antara needs and wants!.

[12] ah ya! menampilkan k.e.y.a.k.i.n.a.n d.i.r.i tanpa menunjukkan sikap sombong,

adalah kegemarannya!

[13] ia pun mampu mengatasi setiap pressure dengan patient.

[14] menjadi ownership dan bertanggungjawab atas setiap tindakan pribadi.

[15] pandai juga mengelola ketakutan diri atau kerennya manages personal fears

[16] dapat melihat berbagai “bayangan abu-abu”

diantara ekstrem hitam dan putih dalam setiap situasi.

[17] menerima umpan balik negatif sebagai alat untuk perbaikan diri.

[18] disertai kesadaran akan ketidakamanan diri dan harga diri,

they know their weakness!

[19] ia juga ahli dalam memisahkan perasaan cinta dengan nafsu sesaat.

[20] serta memahami bahwa komunikasi terbuka adalah kunci kemajuan hubungan.

well.. cek berapa point nih

nah, kesimpulannya sudahkah kita masuk dalam menuju matang?

jika belum, its okey.. keberadaanmu positif kok!

selama bergerak untuk mengangkat drajatmu!

semoga ditengah hidup yang semakin menantang,

kita mampu menunjukkan diri yang matang ^^

wallahu a'lamu bishshawab.

wassalamualaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh,

barakalllahu fiikum,

~*aisyah asyafiyah*~

*repost dengan sedikit perbaikan

hari ibu 2012 :)

•*`'•.¸more than one reason¸.•''*•
.:bumi cinta اللَّهِ desember 22, 2012:.

bismillahirahmanirahim
assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh

alhamdulillah.. alhamdulillahi robbil alamin asholatuwasalamu ashrofil ambiyai’ walmurshalin ama ba’du ♥

sungguh, menempatkan kasih pada ibu,

hanya pada satu hari bukanlah tanda anak berbakti

dan semoga aku bukan salah satu diantaranya

namun sebuah apreasi kecil pada hari –yg kata dunia-

adalah istimewa, semoga dapat menambah...

tidak hanya kecintaan tapi juga pemahaman,

alasan mengapa ia pantas kita beri ♥

mamah itu luar biasa, sebab...

[1] engkau berani bertarung dengan maut, demi nafasku.

[2] setelah sembilan bulan menjadi beban tubuh dan jiwamu

[3] bersamaan dengan sakit, mual, cemas yg kau taburi suka

[4] engkau pilih segala hal yang baik untukku, sekalipun itu pahit

[5] menahan lapar, melewati terik, berbasah kuyup kau lakukan tuk diriku

[6] saat ku sakit malam-pagi-siangmu juga buatku kan?

[7] beserta panjatan doa, yang merantai namaku..

[8] (bahkan hingga kini)

[9] kau sisihkan uangmu, hanya untuk membeli pakaian terbaikku.

[10] menjual gelang kesayanganmu tuk pendidikanku

[11] menahan caci-maki atau sindiran

[12] meski tertatih di hari-hari paling perih

[13] demi tegaknya aku di bumi

[14] engkau menjagaku dengan segenap jiwamu

[15] membimbingku dengan seluruh cintamu

[16] mendidikku dengan sabar dan sayang

[17] tangan atau lidahmu tak pernah menyakitiku

[18] sekalipun banyak hari dimana kubuat luka,

[19] engkau selalu jadi yang paling mengerti

[20] sekalipun hanya mendapati diamku

[21] nasihatmu selalu melengkapi siapa diriku

[22] sekalipun tiada gelar dunia selain kata ‘mamah’

[23] selain... mencuci pakaian, menyiapkan makan

[24] membersihkan rumah, memberikan segala kebutuhanku

[25] merawat, menghiburku, menemaniku, mendidikku

[26] dan ada di dekatku.. semua adalah keberuntungan

[27] aku bersyukur engkau ‘ingin di rumah’

[28] dan menikahi lelaki yang memang pantas menjadi ayah

[29] serta mendukung setiap kebaikan yang kupilih

[30] dan mengajariku bagaimana menjadi baik di keadaan tersulit.

[sungguh [30] alasan ini masih kurang dan tak pernah cukup]

more than one reason,

terimakasih mengajarkan jujur, tulus,

mengajarkan jadi ibu, mendorong sukses,

dan mencintai islam.

ya, rabb.. terimakasih menempatkanku,

pada ibu yang memang pantas dicintai J

semoga akupun pantas membuatnya bahagia.

di dunia dan di akhirat.

wallahu a'lamu bishshawab.
wassalamualaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuh,
barakalllahu fiikum,
~*syafiyah*~