My Lovely Sister

 

after my holiday, i went back to semarang.

and i am badly miss her so much!

we had a great time together,

played computer education games,

made many song!

launghing so loud!

watched toy story,

readed stories!

it's feel empty.

i miss her badly!

~*syafiyah*~

[28.08.12]

Like and Dislike (Who Am I part II)

Well, next test is list what's your fav things and not, like dislike, love or hates!

say, bismillah first!!

This is my answer, you can copy and change! 

- My fav food is.... (Nasi timbel, sambel tomat, ikan asin!)

- My fav drink is.... (Milk / chocholate milk!)

- My fav movie is... (The Lord of the Ring / AADC)

- My fav music is... (I dont have any)

- My fav book is... (Al-Chemist)

- My fav Author is... (Paulo Coelho)

- My fav director is... (Nobody)

- My fav place... (My bedroom)

- My fav thing... (Book and Laptop)

- My fav holiday's place.. (Bookstore and home)

- My fav place to learn... (Mosque)

- My fav clothes... (Casual Gamis)

- My fav shoes.. (Wedgest)

- My fav motorcycle.. (Matic)

- My fav car.. (Swift)

- My fav brand for handphone... (Samsung)

- My fav restaurant.. (Mmm... my own kitchen..? haha)

- My fav chef... (My mom!)

- My fav sport... (Joging)

- My fav animal.. (not too much, little love fish or bird, but amaze for horse)

- My fav issue... (All about islam-women-psy-justice)

- My fav time... (at night)

- My fav teacher... (My elementary school's teacher)

- My fav quiz... (who want to be a millionaire)

- My fav animation.. (How to train your dragon, Toy Story)

- My fav princess.. (Rapunzel)

- My fav tv... (Thrill, National Geography,)

- My fav radio... (Rodja, Nurusunnah)

- My fav color.. (Brown and Soft-Pink)

- My fav ustad.. (On radio rodja, yusuf mansyur, aa gym)

- My fav blog/web.. (umm, my blog? haha radiorodja) 

- My fav subject on my departement... (psychology abnormal and social)

- My fav newspaper... (not really like to read newspaper, but i choose republik!)

- My fav state... (Canada)

- My fav fruit... (Durian)

- My fav ice cream.. (Rainbow Wall's ice cream)

- My fav snack.. (Chitato)

- My fav bag... (backpack)

- My fav idol... (rasulullah salallahu alaihi wassalam)

- My fav singer.. (no one!)

- My fav Tv Show (Ghost Whisper)

- My fav hobby... (Writing, reading)

- My fav friend... (who easy to support other and self, and hard to grumble)

- My best passion... (Psyhcolog, Writer, and Entrepreneur)

- My best supporter... (Family!)

- My best friend... (Gwendry, Ayu, and Rohis 78 and Rohis 75)

- My best talent... (Write and Talk! + Idea~)

- My best habit... (Want to learn manything!)

- My best potential... (Easy to share positive think!)

- My best dream... (have samara and success family!)

- My best think... (I am proud to be kaffah, with Islam -syar'i, everythings will be happiness!)

- My best time.. (When I am with my Rabb)

- My best place.. (Jannah, aamiinallahumaamin)

- My best characteristic... (Easy to help, easy to share, tolerant)

- My best memories... (When I play with my brother and sister)

- My best hope.. (Can bring my mom and dad to Mekkah, and see my bro-sis succes)

- My best target.. (Hafizh with my husband and children)

- My best feeling.. (happy if i can inspiring and get what i want)

- My best part of life.. (When i know about Islam and it's beauty)

- I dont like eat... (pare!)

- I dont like drink.. (bitter drink!)

- I dont like see... (people make sins or unproductive things!)

- I dont like people.. (who easy grumpily and have no respect)

- I dont like watch.. (disturbing movie!)

- I dont like listen.. (lie, music, and vain words)

- I dont like place... (dirty/vile and narrow)

- I dont like media... (who show sexuality side of women!)

- I dont like thing.. (which one make bad view of islam, have no human right!)

- I hate people... (who hard to move on, allergy to islam, munafik)

- I love people...  (who love to learn islam, want and easy to share lovely things, looks happy/optimist!)

how about you?

~*syafiyah*~

[27.08.12]

Who am I?

I think it's a fitrah, to have different characteristic. to be or want to be.

To love or hate something.

But, our Rabb give us intellegent-mind-brain to make it more responsibilty-wise-bright! So, not only about emotion, its also about wisdom! Knowing your self is one of way to know your Rabb. So, today.. i wanna share little bit about my self it!

Hope you like this!

#Well, i get this view of me from one of personality quiz, and.... unbelieveble, its all almost true, the answer is so me!~ (You also can tray on http://www.quizbox.com) InsyaAllah hope its help you to know our self and change together! (I'll color blue for the statement that's feel so me)

Your view on yourself:

Other people find you very interesting, but you are really hiding your true self. Your friends love you because you are a good listener. They'll probably still love you if you learn to be yourself with them.
---Well, i know it, sometimes i just want to be silent, but in another situation it's great to show what i want to show. I think i am not good enough to be a listener, i love to share what's on my mind!
 

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
---YES! Absolutely rite! I love a smart people, and determined, have a strong faith. serious..? if its men they can make me laugh but also not waste the time or not focus, i also absolutely agree!! :D yeah, i'll not judge a book by its cover! Maybe at first i will admiring 'some style' but when i know inside you, i see how 'serious,smart and determined' are you!
 

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
---Yeah, that's rite, if i meet mr. right when i was on highschool maybe now i have two kids, its mean i am not yet find my mr.right, and i am too 'afraid' to find him, since i was little i try not too close to boys, and till rite now i am not make any relation, its only about organitation, and insyaallah syar'i. So, am I affraid? Yes! I am afraid Allah will angry to me because i make relationship before marriage.
 

The seriousness of your love:

You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.
 --SAME explaining with third point :)
 

Your views on education

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
---No Rejection! I take it all! But, there is one of my weakness : i cant 'stand too long' little bit easy to give up, and change to another topic.
 

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
--For my self, yes this is rite. I want to sit in front of my computer, or meet my client and than take my money! But for my husband, i hope he can be a success entrepreneur, its okey for him to make unsteady income :)
 

How do you view success:

You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.

---Insyaallah, there is no impossible for Allah :)

 

What are you most afraid of:

You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.
--Yeah, this is because my fast so it's still my homework but i guess the 'degree' is lower now!

Who is your true self:

You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.
 --Hahahaha.. i only can laughing! This is soooo right! excapt full energy, i am not pretty sure about this because i am easy to be so tired! but another time i am just like a robot without tired. hmm, just like ocean! :) sometimes high sometimes slow.

Alhamdulillah, its feel better knowing my self.

Well, i am studying psychology so its easy to know my self, insyaallah.

now, it's your turn!

~*syafiyah*~

[24.08.12]

My Ramadhan 1433 H and Semarang

I cant talk more about this ramadhan, from my last ramadhan this was not my best coz my amal jamai' was sooo low! Lowest ever (since i was knowing Islam) Why? because I really want to spent my time with my family, also want to write, want to watched, and want to play with my brother, helping the other brother, and laughing with my little sisters! It's holiday! Rare Holiday. For two Ramadhan before, I spent most ramadhan in Semarang, came to kajian and become a part of committee. And, honestly this year I also take the roll for Ramadhan'S Agenda in Semarang. But, my brother needs me, and I also need them. I need to refresh my mind, there was many thing happen for many days before and I need to think clearly and charge my hearth.

In fact, I feel satisfied to spent my time with my family, but in another fact of my feeling I know its not enough for us and most for me. I wasnt success enough, maybe I have a lot of fun, and learn manythings but.. how about them? Does my family learn many great things for me? Hmm.. Hard question.

Sometimes I helped my mother.. But, I know, Its far from enough, I still couldn't gave them the best memories, I guess, I often made my mom angrier -maybe- because I didnt mop the floor or woke up earlier, I didnt help my mom to prepared sahur. (Is this just my feeling or this is the truth?) I am just like a little girl who missing to play and relax. -.-"

It's make me hard to back to Semarang, i really want to spend quality time with them, coz i dont find my family there. I am empty in another side.

I am just afraid I have no time. but, the show must go on.

the begin must have end.

i just need to make my study faster, and finished it earlier.

or, i need to make my own family?

ah, the important thing is.. I really need to make up my self again + make up my time-management again!

aiih, why i am curcol here?

oh, yeah.. just to share maybe u have another experience,

to solve and inspiring me?

take it easy,

i am human.

~*syafiyah*~

[24.08.12]

2 days before back

I just Trying, Sorry :)

Hmm.. there is one different thing in my blog. From the tittle you maybe ask me, 'Trying? What am I trying" Well, its about using english. Now, you must be know what's the different thing here, yeah.. i am just trying to using english now. Why?? There are many reasons, and just like my habits i'll write point per point! :)

1. I want to Improving my English!

I was studying english since I was elementary school since Junior high school, it took 12 years, and I get a little ability because, I am not using that on my daily life. Besides my parents can't speak english, I also dont have friends who want to make conversation. Sometimes I chatted, but not improve too much, because I the conversation only about the same type. 

2. I want to share my mind to a whole the world

 Yeah, everybody have their own opinions, so do I. And, I want to share to around the world, and it will better if i can share to strange/foreign people. Asking about their culture, they family, they hope, they view about Islam also what they do to reach their dream, something like that.

3. I have a target to become fluently of using 4 Language

English is one of my target the another languange are : Sunda, Arabic and Spanyol.

4. I want to go overseas, take schoolarship or just take holiday

My dream place, and I hope i can live there for many months or years are in Mekah-Arab, and Canada :) Hope Allah allowed me, and I hope I can go with my husband and kids^^

5. I want to teaching english

To many student and also to my brothers and sister plus my future kids ^_~ insyaallah.

So, I hope you give ur forgiveness,

because of my mess english :p

and teach me how to be better ^^

and we can reach our dream together

best greet,

~*syafiyah*~

[24.08.12]

Mom and Dad

Family. One of the important part in my life, (maybe also your most important part rite?). I couldnt imagine what if i am not life in this family...? Here is so much fun and care, we have great communication, but sometimes our life sound flat because of the routine.

My mom now 37 years old, we only different 17 years with me. And my dad 40 years only different 19 years. Married on young age? Yes :) and I am totally proud! Why? First, because in their village on their era, the culture was marriage on young age. And, in Islam its allow to marriage on young age, to save from adultery. (And, their marriage inspire me to marriage on young age too and say no to 'make relationship before marriage' -read: pacaran-)

Second, they are not just like my father and mother who take care of us, feeding, make money, teaching, or make rules. But also likes sister and brother also friends, who can make us launging, easy to hang out, teaching but not patronizing, knowing what we really one, and sometimes showing no care if we do mistakes.

Third, they look likes 'educating people' who have academic title. My mom is real mother, full time house wife! Totally care and give full love, -but sometimes she is become angry coz her sons kind of unruly child, sometimes-. And my father, he is a responsibility man! Alhamdulillah, he is success entrepreneur, he give us decent life,  all-sufficiency. Inspiring me to be a full mother but also be a success big boss :) haha~

But, there is no perfect family (or there is always hopes even its looks perfect..? :p #people: never satisfied) My family is not very religious, there are some believe that only follow they culture. But, they not take it seriously. But, my mother is a 'great prayer' she often remember me to pray. And, they support me to use syari clothes and also long hijab. Alhamdulillah.

They support me more than I hope :) Hope I also can support my self to be better, to become rich (this is what they want :) and I also want that ) and caring each other!

There are many habits and our favorite things. We love eating 'Nasi pulen, ikan asin, lalab and sambel', we like 'durian', we love watching~

I love my family, hope we can still in love till come to jannah

~*syafiyah*~

[23.08.12]

The Sims and the effects :D

My favorite games is The Sims 3. You must be know this game, rite? This is a popular game, focus on life simulation, made by Sims studio and published by Electronic Art.

This is a great game ever! From my view, we can learn many thing from this game. And I'll give you point per point.

1. Knowing Our Self

 First thing we must do is create our Sims, from physical till characteristic. You totally feel free to choose his/her style, age, life's target and another things. On my view, the Sims you made just like your reflection about your values, whether its about the meaning of beauty, the view of perfect person, or knowing the real of your dreams or what you want. You made them from your values, (or your fantasy..? --and fantasy also from your values) Hope this games, make we know our self and change to be better person!

2. Managing Time and Knowing The Priority

You have a limit time, our Sims will getting older day by day and they will died when they are elder, and you have targets to get! Plus there are many activity to do, to make your happiness's point full~ And every activity have different points, so you must choose the priority! This games make you know how to handle any challenge, and choose the priority, if only you want to be success :)

3. Arrange Strategy

Not too far with the second explanation, this is about how you can get all yours target (maybe.. improving your skills, go around the world, finishing mission, having family, build your dreams house, make a lot of friends --all up to you!) on time (or earlier)! But, you also can make your dreams still come true! You need to make strategy, whether your first step is improving your skills, and next step is bla bla bla. Or, comes to party as often as possible and talk to another sims, or always make your stamina and mood on high level so you can work hard on your office. The strategy is important!

4. Be Creative!

One more about the great things from this game is.. you can create your dreams house! But, at first, because of the limit money, you only can make a small house or buy an area. But, after you work, slowly you can buy one by one nice and exclusive furniture and make your home bigger. (But, is you want to make really big and rich money, i guess you couldnt get it on time, so... you can try to cheat, just click : ctrl+shift+c and then write Motherlode on the column) This will make you creative to creat house :)

Well, this all my view about the Sims and affect to our class.

One things we must remmember, 'Its easy to win on the games, but only the hard worker who can win on the real games place -world-"

So, lets make the Sims just a game when we have free time, not a whole life! :)

btw, what's your fav games..? :)

~*syafiyah*~

[22.08.12]

*Besides this game I also really love this one:

 

Harvestmoon back to nature!! xD really miss this game! I played this game when I was on Junior Highschool, unforgettable, no one games can change this game on my memories! :D

The Shawshank Redemption

I loveeee this movie! The most! Number one! First place! I learn about, 'Hope', 'Work' and great personality. Also.. sabar and ikhlas :)

"Fear can hold you prisoner. Hope can set you free"

This is a 1994 American movie, directed by Frank Darabont and starring Tim Robbins + Morgan Freeman. I just know this movie adpted from the Stephne King's novella : "Rita Hayworth and Shawshank Redemption" Cool!!

This story about Andy Dufresne, a banker who spends nearly two decades in Shawshank State Prison, be accused for murder his wife and her another lover (read: kekasih gelap). The great story begin on the prison. He be friends a fellow inmate, Ellis Boyd "Red" Redding. He become a success prisoner, and when the situation comes bad (coz the conspiration and corrupt by police) he success to escape and disassemble that cases. After serving 40 years, his friend, Red receives parole. He struggles to adapt to life outside prison and fears he never will. Remembering his promise to Andy, he visits Buxton and finds a cache containing money and a letter, asking him to come to Zihuatanejo. He finds Andy there, and the two friends are happily reunited.

Happy ending, rite? ^^

~*syafiyah*~

[22.08.12]

Black Swan

Production year: 2010 

Country: USA 

Cert (UK): 15 

Runtime: 103 mins 

Directors: Darren Aronofsky 

Cast: Barbara Hershey, Mila Kunis, Natalie Portman, Vincent Cassel, Winona Ryde

And, this is my view..

I hate this movie (read: sexual scene!) -its personal.

I study about psychology, so, this movie help me to learn more about schizophrenia.

I cant forget the word she said,

"I just want to be perfect"

I think this word is so near to me. I mean, I also want to be perfect just like on my standard list about 'girls must be' in my mind. Ups, but this is not about me, this is about her! (look the poster)!

Who is she? she is Nina (Natalie Portman), beautiful ballerina, ambitious, sexual naive, mental illness, ugly duck who change to black swan! "She lives with her difficult mother who abandoned her own stagnant ballet career on being impregnated by some heartless, mercurial mogul or other, and channelled her rage and disappointment into coaching the resulting daughter, whom she has attempted to infantilise by filling her pink bedroom with gonks and installing a deplorable musical box that tinkles the theme from Swan Lake." ---this statement from wikipeda, huaa.. i need translate! (well, the risk for amateur english student!--point me)

Well, forget about the translate -for me-. Back to story!

Nina, want to play on "Black Swan" playing the character's evil twin. She has to find the darker of her self and also her sensual side. And.. she 'success' : touching self, sexual dreams with Lily, and be a naughty-rebel's girl! She become so worried  about a weird feathery skin-rash and becomes convinced that her reflection in the mirror continues to stare at her after she has turned away. This make her, crazy!

I give this movie 2 starts from 5. Only for : the act of Natalie Portman, that was so totally, she make her self dance ballet beautifully!

dont watch this alone, or better not watch.

~*Syafiyah*~

[22.08.12]

The Tale of Two Sisters

 Well, since I live in Semarang, I seldom watching television, besides I am busy with my study and also my organisation -hihi :p read : 'sok sibuk'- there are many "un-educating" Indonesian's TV show, so.. I am not interest! But, on holiday, in jakarta, my 'desire' to watch is comiiiing again! Coz there are many nice-great-or-awsome-movie -on cabel TV! ^^alhamdulillah (or astaghfirullah? coz make us lalai.....?! hope no!)

 Now, I want to share about this cool movie! "A tale of two sisters" --Lets check the poster, and you will know this is not 'fairy tale' this gere is horror, or more precisely psychology-thrill.

I searched on wikipeadia about this, and here is the result : this story written and directed by Kim Ji-Woon on 2003, with the baby fast actress: Lee Song Jun (first drew her critical notice and newcomer awards)  This movie get positive critical and won best picture at 2004, and the first to be screened in American theaters! An American remake titled The Uninvited, was released in 2009!

 Do you want to know the story..? This is about two sistes, Su-mi and Su yeon. They are met by their difficult stepmother, Eun-joo. During their stay, Su-mi and Su-yeon encounter a ghostly woman at night. Additionally, tensions grow worse between the sisters and Eun-joo. There are many nice and curious scenes, about the ghost, the reason why Su-mi so hate to Eun-Joo, why his father so cold and weird. Not one by one and not slow but sure.. the movie give unpredictable answer! The true is...

Watch by your self,

this is nice-story and nice picture!

have you ever seen alone -movie-?

suddenly i remember the same feeling between this movie and that!

no more words, except : watch!

~*syafiyah*~

[21.08.12]

My 21 List of Dream Catcher

I finished reading this book only on one day. Simple, young, and move maker. For me, this concept is not new; its about make your dream list comes true (+ tips and share). Personally, one minus for this book is : i dont get one of value : Islam, this is sooo general, for common girls and boys. And, coz before this I get the same concept from another muslim's books, so, my view for this book is so-so. -But, I really want to become like her on another side. She is 21, same like me!-

I am already make my dream list to do, every month, since 2010. And it was so late, she was making that since 2004 when she was on junior high school. And ME..? when I was 3th grade on s.e.n.i.o.r high school. This become one of my advice about "I Wish I know This when I was Junior High School"

This book stimulating me to re-new my dreams. Because.. now I am different person from my... "last me"!. I learning about Islam -and believe: life must be full fill of this value-, learning about social-care, unique-people and the power of trying.

So, i hope with that's all value, i can be a part of another live and making life more meaningful!

21 Dream's Catcher List [on Ramadhan 1433 H till Ramadhan 1434 H]

(20 Juli '12- first day on Next Ramadhan)

1. Learning how to make cookies/cakes (40%)

• 1. Make 5 type of cookies/cakes
• Result : Till (20 august) only can make kue bolu and browniess.

2. Learning English

• 1. Take course
• 2. Get toefle between 420-500

3. Learning Bekam

• 1. Take this course
• 2. Bekam my daddy/family + have the tools.

4. Learning how to Make Clothes

•  1. Make one clothes by my self :D

5. Learning how to Drive a Car

• 1. Can drive automatic car
• 2. have sim c
• 3. have a car

6. Be Smart on My Study

• 1. Well, still get cum laude + UNDERSTAND!
• 2. Make A LOT of friends
• 3. Make Paper
• 4. Ready for your skripsi :)
• 5. Join PKM

7. Professional on Dakwah

• 1. Do my amanah ON TIME! (Proposal + LPJ)
• 2. Still help for Once A Week Kajian~

8. Go To Routine Islamic Study

• 1. Minimal comes to 10 Kajian every Month (Min 2 Kajian One Week) + the notes!

9. Do Muslimah Habit!

• 1. Using syar'i hijab
• 2. Pray on Time (max. 30 minuties from azdan)
• 3. Pray Jamaah (Subuh, Maghrib, Isya)
• 4. Pray Dhuha and Tahajud (min. 3 times a week)
• 5. Pray rawatib (Subuh and Maghrib)
• 6. Shadaqah (min. once a week)
• 7. Hafalan 3 surat
• 8. Tilawah between 5-10 pages / day
• 9. There is no sleep until I am tired and after Subuh
• 10. There is no go till I make my bed and wudhu!
• 11. Send Mom SMS everyday!

10. Make 100 new friends

• 1. Between 2-5 person per week (get nomber/facebook)
• 2. Get 10 foreign friends!

11. Visit Interesting Place

• 1. Pasar Baroe - Observation - Jakarta
• 2. Pasar Senen - Observation - Jakarta
• 3. Asemka - Shop - Jakarta
• 4. Mayestik - Shop - Jakarta
• 5. My Friend's place - Silaturahim and Shop - Solo
• 6. One of Beach on Java (Anyer/Pulau Seribu) - Tafakur - Jawa
• 7. Penjara Anak/Wanita - Semarang

12. Social Time!

• 1. Make 2 Social Care (dependent/independent)
• 2. Join 2 Charity!

13. Take My Money!

• 1. Trying to Make Online Shop
• 2. Make "Edly's Kids"
• Need : I know, to start this need time and commitment. And, this semester I need an extra power for study and dakwah on campus, so.. I letting my self to do this on semester 6. Insyaallah that's will easier. Hope I can make my own label! L♥ve Fashion! And my Parents Proud!

14. Show My Talent!

• 1. Write on min. 5 Writing Competition!
• 2. Make 240 post on Blog or Facebook! (20 Articles/Month)
• 3. Write one articles on Newspaper
• 4. Edit and Print my Old Novel
• 5. Re-New my Novel

15. Reading Book and Private Library

• 1. Have min. 24 books/ebook! (2 books/month)
• 2. Read 10 books (Psy's books not Include)
• 3. Reading Marriage books! (min.3)

16. Search for Schoolarship!

•  1. Search about Canada! + Ask and Share!

17. Silaturahim~

• 1. To My Lovely Lecture
• 2. To My Bestfriends on Junior/Senior Highschool

18. Learning Tajwid - Tahsin -again!-

• 1. Remember and Use the rules

19. Learning Desaign Photoshop/Coreldraw

• 1. Make min 2 Design for Poster or other

20. Wish To Have..(?)

• 1. Canon's Camera!
• 2. Have A Car -Black : Brio its okey-
• 3. Have my new Cupboard -for my books-
• 4. Many Syar'i Gamis~ min. 3
• 5. My design's book!
• 6. Sewing Mechine

21. Get Marriage~

• Am I ready enough? I guess its better ask, "is he ready enough?" Actually, I am not second choice :p Well, I will 22 Insyaallah~ hope I'll finding Nemo, eeh.. I mean finding mr.right! hoho~

Bismillah, I think it's enough, -or maybe overload?- :p Insyaallah, with great time management I can do min. 80% and have min.50%! I just need to focus, restless, and trying!

-I hope- i am ready to say "The success me is coming!" coz I learning psychology :)

No galau, no cry, no hopless!

There is only : optimist and action

syalalalala~~

coz, with Allah everything is possible

~*syafiyah*~

[21.08.12]

List : Books To Have

Well, I love reading books, especially Islamic books, Psychology/Self-Development, and Poetry/literature. If I am on bad mood or really lazy, I like waste my time by reading Detective Conan or Doraemon, -this comic will always get my love- Sometimes I like to read Novel, when I was on junior and senior high school I loved to read about love story, and my first novel was "Eiffle, I am in Love" Unforgettable book! -I remember how i read that book, I was reading that book under my schoolbook :p so my mom saw me as "study-hard-daughter" :p But, when I was Senior High School, the oriented of that genre, slowly changed, to inspiration novel. And my favorite author -for novel- are Paulo Coelho (Really fall in love with his "Alchemist") and Andrea Hirata, but then i guess i'll also fall in love with tere-liye's book, I like his personality, but for book i cant give much comment coz I only read 'Hafalan Shalat Delisa" :) great story!

Hmm, this is my next target, "Book To Have"

1. The Road less Traveled

My Target Since 2010 :p

2. Sirah Nabawiyah

Am I muslim? :p

3. Dream Catcher

Already Get^^ 17.08.12

4. Tere-Liye books

Whatever book (but 'berjuta rasanya' sounds great)

5. Brida - Paulo Coelho

My Target since early 2011 :p

6. Menanti buah Hati dan Hadiah untuk yang Dinanti

7. Buku Toefle

Already Get, 17.08.12

~*syafiyah*~

[17.08.12]

~I know there are still many more, but bismillah focus for this books~

Ready for Marriage?

hmm, imaging for wedding cake :) lets become fat! lol :p

For me, marriage on young age is 'thing' (read: sesuatu :p ) Now, I am 21 years old and this passion come bigger and bigger, but... sorry guys, this time without galau! Hahaha~ (laugh so loud deh if i remember my pinky-high-school life itu) Well, it does'nt mean I was the queen of galau on pinky world! Ago, ago.. i really like to wrote about pinky things on novel, short story, and poetry. Just like teenager. But, dont ask me, "am I in love..?" coz firmly I'll answer "NO!" Although, no body tell me the rules about relationship boys-girls in Islam, but since I was Junior High School, I believ there is no relationship before marriage. And, I believe there are many people who have a same view like me (^^v) Well, exactly this is not my point. The point is.. marriage life style! This Ramadhan I learn little bit about this! And, I want to share you. To make it easy, I'll make it point by point~

1. Marriage not only about two couple, but..

Also make relation between two big family! Its mean we also 'have affair' with :

different: individual, character, past, passion, problems, habits, and hope

so, be ready for this 'culture shock' :)

2. Marriage is just like a coin, who...

have two different side! Its mean there is no 'only happy'

but also bring 'sad scene', rite?

And, people also just like a coin, on one side maybe we can laugh

but another side maybe she/he make you cry loud!

(moreover, if you make relation before marriage, maybe when you marriage

with him/her you'll shock! why?

because she/he using 'mask-personality')

its mean, no body perfect, and there is no marriage without test-challenge-problem!

(what ever word you want to take :p )

all choice is -still- yours!

3. Marriage will change you, coz...

you life with someone who -maybe- have different believe-value-knowledge (or situation)

and you life with her/him for a long time, so that's will also 'work on' you!

it'll be great if the value is positive, but what if that's negative?

so, you need to make your iman strong!

and make true love not only between you and your couple,

but also with your new big family + social of course!

 Well, this all the point I get.

No matter what, marriage must be all girls dreams! Just like me!

But, not all girls ready to prepare for this.

And I hope we can be a part of care's people.

So, what exactly we should do?

The First prepare -and one only- is Iqro / Read

Not only reading about how to make great marriage,

what you/she/he should do and dont

how to care for and educate your child

make your marriage harmonist and happy.

but, first you need to read about your self

what you want to get from your marriage..?

what's your couple characteristic?

are you ready or need enough?

pretty sure..?!

biologist, psychic, knowledge, financial, habit and dien?

also ready to get the risk and the opportunity?

if yes, the last thing is action! :)

~*syafiyah*~

[16.08.12]

hope we can find mr./ms.right, lillahita'ala~

“Wahai sekalian manusia, sesungguhnya Kami menciptakan kalian dari laki-laki dan perempuan dan Kami jadikan kalian bersuku-suku dan berkabilah-kabilah agar kalian saling mengenal. Sesungguhnya orang yang paling mulia di antara kalian di sisi Allah adalah yang paling bertakwa.” (Al Hujurat: 13)

“Orang-orang beriman itu adalah bersaudara.” (Al Hujurat: 10)

“Kaum mukminin dan kaum mukminat sebagian mereka adalah wali bagi sebagian yang lain.”

(At Taubah: 71)

“Wanita-wanita yang baik adalah untuk laki-laki yang baik dan laki-laki yang baik adalah untuk wanita-wanita yang baik…” (An Nur: 26)

Kemudian beliau lanjutkan dengan beberapa hadits, di antaranya :

“Tidak ada keutamaan orang Arab dibanding orang ajam (non Arab) dan tidak ada keutamaan orang ajam dibanding orang Arab. Tidak pula orang berkulit putih dibanding orang yang berkulit hitam dan sebaliknya orang kulit hitam dibanding orang kulit putih, kecuali dengan takwa. Manusia itu dari turunan Adam dan Adam itu diciptakan dari tanah.”

Done and Yet!

Hmm... entah apa yang dapat atau perlu saya katakan. Pada akhirnya, sesungguhnya kita memahami apa yang harus kita lakukan. Namun dalam eksekusinya, it's all big zero! Ketika pada akhirnya kita merasa tidak mencapai standar yang kita tetapkan pada diri sendiri, kita akan merasa sia-sia atau tidak berguna. Dan itulah yang saya rasakan kini. Well, bukan mau berbagi 'galau' jika itu bahasa dari kata: resah, khawatir, atau hampa.But, this blog is my Fourth home -after Jakarta, Sukabumi, Semarang- :p so I guess its free to share, hope can inspiring.

For my action.. Ada beberapa target yg memang terlaksana dan belum terlaksana. And I'll share here.

(Nomor-nya bukan berdasarkan priority, its random)

1. Kaffah (on Using Hijab)

indicator : using long hijab with simple dress (jubah) --almost done--

well, i wont using cadar except using motorcycle, for right now :)

if i have a husband and he allow me, and its give maslahat, insyaallah i'll happy :)

2. Aku ingin improving my english ability

 

well, it must i guess.

3. Learning Arabic Language

 

i know my capacity, so.. it just simple-daily-conversation 

4.  Get Marriage

 

well, everybody have their own dream.

so i do.  coz next year i'll 22 years, so i hope.

ramadhan 2011 is my last 'single-ramadhan' .hope.

and Allah will give the best, insyaallah.

5. Social-Bussiness

I wanna make my own business.

with label/brands : "Edlys Kids" - for kids-child clothes

and "Dapur Sunda" -for kuliner

this business is social business -to help the other-

 6. Smart

 

i hope i not only get cum laude

but also creativity, intellectuality, professional

trust, wisdom and friendship

-alhamdulillah until now hope till end i get cum laude-

 

~*syafiyah*~